You can suggest that, but you are saying "give up your close ties to family/friends/social life", and "move further from your job, or find a new one". Obviously if they really want kids they will make it work, but it's the ones who would like them but are not willing to give up so much of their lives, and limit themselves to one or zero.
Im saying exactly that....if need be, you MOVE to where life is better in general.
Grow up, be an adult make adult decisions.
When exactly did people start being such pussies and afraid to move out on their own...? This wasn't so unusual only a few decades back.
Hell in pioneer days....married couples would load up the wagon and head west often to never see family again.....
That's a bit extreme but is shows mankind often moves to where it is best to live.....when did people get so afraid to leave mommy and daddy? Can people not make friends in new places?
People act like it's a big deal.
Ever since I went out of state to college...I've almost never lived back in my home city or state....it's been great and no downside whatsoever....
I don't see what the big fucking problem ius with kids today.
I have a VERY tight loving family I grew up with, parents, cousins....I still have lifelong friends there and along the way in all states I've lived in.
Moving doesn't mean the end of relationships, just changes....