Comment Re:In response... (Score 1) 41
Altman (apparently) lies
Gaslighting refers to a specific form of psychological manipulation and emotional abuse. It involves a sustained pattern of behavior intended to make the target question their own perception, memory, or sanity. The term originates from the 1938 play Gas Light (and its 1944 film adaptation), in which a husband secretly dims the gas lights in their home and then denies any change, convincing his wife she is imagining things and losing her mind.
This expansion of the term is widely documented. Commentators, psychologists, and linguists note that "gaslighting" is now frequently applied to:
Ordinary lies, Disagreements, Insensitive remarks, Political rhetoric.
Even forgetfulness or differing opinions.
When the term arises inappropriately, a calm clarification (e.g., "That sounds like a lie or denial, but gaslighting specifically requires an attempt to make someone doubt their sanity") can reinforce proper understanding without accusation.