Comment Re:Question is (Score 2, Interesting) 162
I think there are a couple issues here. One is parents. I have a relative who worked in education and there is an incredible amount of "shopping for a diagnosis" that happens when a child has issues with some aspect of their education. Many parents simply aren't able to deal with the fact that there are things that their child may not be good at, or that they're not conventionally brilliant, etc. They then shop around for a psychologist who will attest to the kid having some "disorder" so that they get special treatment, exempted from normal rules, etc.
Some cases are legit, many are not. There was one student who had social anxiety during test taking to the point they would lock up and not be able to perform. Obviously this is something that needs to be worked on, but the solution there was that they got to take their tests at a different time than the rest of the class so they didn't feel the anxiety and could adequately prove their knowledge. Again, this isn't a perfect solution for the rest of their life since you'll have to do things with other people... but as something to build confidence and make sure the knowledge was "in there somewhere", it doesn't strike me as a terrible compromise.
The other thing is that young people are generally more open to talking about their struggles and issues than I think they were in the past. It helps build community and a support system. My kids have gotten calls from friends who say "hey, can you talk to me for a couple minutes, I'm having a bit of a panic attack". Ten or 15 minutes later, things are back on track, people are calmed down, and life goes on. Again, better to develop coping mechanisms so that the panic attacks don't happen, but that's a process.
Finally, I think you have a point about being "normal". There are still plenty of "normal" kids out there who don't stand around and talk about these things. They're off doing something else and you might not notice it because it's more what you expect. But there are undoubtedly some who "want" to have an issue so that they have something to talk about and "fit in" with a peer group. It could even take the form of "I was diagnosed with xyz, but look at how awesome I still am".
Just my completely non-professional, anecdotal thoughts.