>"Stop blaming the parents."
Parents have the duty to protect their children. They *are* to blame if they hand over dangerous things to their kids.
>"The drug pushers are the tech bros."
Yes, they are. And it is up to the parents to restrict access. It should be up to companies like Google, Apple, and Microsoft to offer tools parents can use for restricting access at the source devices kids have access to. Not to restrict adults.
>"And it's these same companies who entice businesses and governments everywhere to set up online-only services so that a regular citizen can't function adequately without a smart phone."
We are talking about minors. Not adults. Minors do not need online-only services. They should be slowly prepared to be proficient through restricted devices.
>"The parents are simply trying to do the right thing for their kids"
No, many are certainly not. They are often handing access to dangerous devices that can do ANYTHING and walking away.
>"They buy those kids smart phones because that's what makes sense in today's tech bro world."
The devices they are being handed or have access to should be restricted devices with the parents monitoring and explaining and participating when accessing stuff outside the minimum required. It should start with whitelisting all communication in/out and carefully vetted apps. Then slowly introducing more freedom as they become more responsible. Proper parenting does this with everything else.
If we want to push something on companies, it should be to offer better parental control options for devices we give to children that are used without supervision. Not to force all visitors to identify themselves everywhere like a nanny state or totalitarian government does to control its citizens.