MOST therapists have no actual real world trauma to relate with either. My brother-in-law is a psychologist at the VA. He talks to combat veterans. He has never once in his life been truly frightened, has never been in a fight, never gone without a meal, never been homeless, never seen any trauma of any kind. Hell hes never even picked up a weapon or thought about the idea of being ordered to shoot another human. How in the fuck is he qualified to help others who have experienced these things?