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I left last night. I'm staying at my parent's house. I am simply not willing to let my life continue the way it was.

I hope that we can get counselling now - but if not, I'm willing to make that decision too. Either things are going to get a hell of a lot better or they are going to get a hell of a lot over.

It's going to be a very, very sucky March.

Pix

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  • to hear that it has reached such a point. :-(
    Sometimes that's the way it works.

    I hope it works out in the best possible way for you and for him. Keep your chin up & focus on what's important to you.

  • What the AC said. That may mean the marriage gets even better, or it may mean that it ends. I hope that you get what you need.
  • I know it's not much, but it's all I've got to offer right now.
  • It's hard and it'll get harder... and you'll go through doubts and regrets and may even change your mind... Nothing's set in stone at this point.

    But sometimes getting some space helps you get some perspective and make the decisions you need to make.

    This, too, shall pass.

    ....Bethanie....
    • But sometimes getting some space helps you get some perspective and make the decisions you need to make.

      This works both ways. Distance may help him realize what he needs to change.
      Best of luck.
      • I would NOT be holding my breath WRT him changing. People don't change. Their behavior might get modified for a little while, but with the same underlying attitudes & beliefs, they will always go back to their old ways. Whether or not you choose to accept them and deal with whatever it is you don't like on your own is your own decision.

        When it was my decision, I thought long and hard about why I should stay married, and in the end, the cons outweighed the pros. Thus far, I am having no regrets -- as a

    • Ya, hang in there, Pix.

      On a lighter note, I scanned Bethanie's post a bit too quickly, saw the words "stone" and "shall pass" and wondered why she was talking about kidneys.

      OK, I need more tea.

      Cheers,

      Ethelred

  • ... and good wishes to both of you.
  • I hope everything works out - whichever way that is.
    • I'm not good at originality at these times; an effect of Aspergers.

      Good luck. Hope it works out, one way or another.

  • Moving out is action; which is better than inaction.

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