Comment cat out of the bag (Score 1) 203
Its too late. Sure, you can regulate some things - like gambling and porn sites. But really, most kids live in low density neighborhoods - with very few children that they could ever meet spontaneously. Summer is a child desert on the streets. They are all in some full time summer camp so both parents can work. There's no house phones so the kids can call over and make their own play dates. If they don't have a cell phone, they are cut off. I say - introduce the phone earlier - and control it, and teach them how to control it. Teach them about scammers and the tricks that app makers use to make those stupid 'free' games addictive. Watch Youtube with them while you try to squeeze in another hour of work. Of course, try to arrange play and parties and give them the tools to arrange play with their over scheduled friends. Explain that homework really can be skipped sometimes or just do the minimum and get through it. And there's a lot of healing to do since COVID. The isolation and masks and remote school was so harmful even if it saved lives. The kids are gonna be alright - they just need a little help.