"I'm one individual that is damn abrasive. And oversensitive at times. And I've grown a hell of a lot in how to deal with people because of the flamewars as well as the cooling off periods."

Grown so great, indeed, that your given name is not worthy enough to dignify your comments, Mr. Coward.

Ernest Tomlinson.

P.S. If you have to tell people how mature you are, you've probably got some way to go before you get there.