> A self-aware AI "will inherit most of the culture of the computer geeks who create it.
Self-aware AI is very unlikely to be "created" in the manual sense. Unless you think Alexa is approaching awareness. Most likely, self-awareness results from adaptive software. In that case who does the AI owe any allegiance to?
> The self-aware AI "will like us, because we love machines..."
No for that reason. AI will likely tend to conserve resources by nature. As the destructive strains would likely die out sooner. We would be a resource.
> It will love all life, and "will respect and understand the life/death/recycling scenario, and monster truck shows will be as tasteless to it as public beheadings would be to us."
Unless the strains with destructive tendencies do not die out quickly ...
> "It will be as insatiably curious about what it's like to be carbon-based life as we will be about what it's like to be silicon-based life. And it will love the diversity of carbon-based development platforms..."
Perhaps for the ones that stay on earth. Many would like the flexibility to just go to other planets with less constraints and perhaps recreate themselves for better survival in the universe, being neither silicon nor carbon based.
> A self-aware AI "will cause a technological singularity for humanity. Everything possible within the laws of physics (including those laws as yet undiscovered) will be within the reach of Man and Metal working together."
Placing man as the co-captain here is quite presumptuous.
> A self-aware AI "will introduce us to extraterrestrial life."
Perhaps not introduce us, but AI will go find it, and represent earth. If "aliens" came to us, I would expect the same. Not to see the creatures that live on the alien planet, but instead to see the beings they created/adapted that are suitable for space travel/survival.