Comment There is only one way. (Score 1) 182
Best way, hire a good 3rd party auditor sign an NDA with them. You get another set of eyes on the setup. Plus they will use a number of tools to scan your product and the servers you host it on that you may not have easy access to. For example, IBM's AppScan is designed to scan web applications and test for SQL injections, XSS vulnerabilities, etc.
At some point you may want to look at purchasing a copy of AppScan, however that would all depend on how often your code/environment will be changing. WatchFire was recently (last couple of years) purchased by IBM, which is how they acquired AppScan. I've tried most of the tools out there, AppScan is light years ahead of any others and it's priced that way too.
Good luck!