I think you are delusional if you think that the USA had anything to do with whether Ukraine decided to fight for their independence and freedom or not. Ukraine fights because they do not want to become Russians.
The "never had a chance" shtick is also fairly hollow at this point when Russia's economy is at the point where only the war is keeping it afloat.
Russia's industrial growth has stopped, but the military industry is still growing meaning it's cannibalizing the civilian industry and it still can't keep up with the Russian losses. Meanwhile the Russian war chest (also called the Russian National Wealth Fund) has shrunk to a third of what it was, and the Russian state budget which assumes an oil price of $75 per barrel is looking at a budget crisis with the currently looming threat of a $50 per barrel price. Russian banks are in a very poor state.
If the war ends soon, there are some very serious economic shocks about to happen. And if if stretches out further, the Russian civilian economy might collapse under the weight of the demands of the war economy.