Journal bethanie's Journal: For New & Impending Parents: Suck on this. 23
OK. I don't usually do this, particularly not in my journal. Slashdot is the place I come to NOT talk about mothering & parenting issues. And for those of you who think that's mostly what I *do* talk about here, yes, you're probably right -- but at least I get the *chance* to talk about other stuff, too! In real life, my variety of available topics for discussion tends to be much more limited.
That said, I just read something that, even with ALL I know & have learned about babies & breastfeeding, was really surprising. I've known that pacifiers can interfere with the breastfeeding relationship. But I never realized why or how much. So I'm going to consider this sort of a Public Service Announcement -- required reading for those of in particular who are about to become parents, but even potentially useful for those of you who may be parents again in the future. You never know what you might learn that affects what you do (and how you improve) with your subsequent kids.
Yes, this article is copyrighted, but it bears reprinting in its entirety here, with or without permission. And the source website itself merits perusal, as well, for any parent who wants to get savvy about breastfeeding.
That said, I just read something that, even with ALL I know & have learned about babies & breastfeeding, was really surprising. I've known that pacifiers can interfere with the breastfeeding relationship. But I never realized why or how much. So I'm going to consider this sort of a Public Service Announcement -- required reading for those of in particular who are about to become parents, but even potentially useful for those of you who may be parents again in the future. You never know what you might learn that affects what you do (and how you improve) with your subsequent kids.
Yes, this article is copyrighted, but it bears reprinting in its entirety here, with or without permission. And the source website itself merits perusal, as well, for any parent who wants to get savvy about breastfeeding.
Pacifiers
©2001 Diane Wiessinger, MS, IBCLC 136 Ellis Hollow Creek Road Ithaca, NY 14850
Here is what current research has to say about pacifiers,what it leaves unsaid, and what it all may mean for you and your baby.
- The routine use of pacifiers is linked to early weaning. The link is very clear. But it isn't known whether mothers who are having trouble are more likely to turn to pacifiers, or whether the pacifiers themselves are the problem.
- Pacifiers are linked to sucking problems, especially if they are used during the first few days. Again, it isn't clear whether they cause the problems, or whether mothers whose babies are already having trouble are more likely to use a pacifier. But both these links do make it clear that if you feel breastfeeding isn't going well, it makes more sense to look for skilled help than to start using a pacifier.
- Pacifiers are linked to a lower milk intake at the time of greatest brain growth. For the newborn who needs very frequent meals, and for the baby who isn't growing well, this can be a serious problem. The baby who needs to suck is usually looking for calories. Giving a pacifier is like giving sugarless gum to someone who is trying to double his weight in a few months. Spacing feedings is done for the mother's convenience or to maintain her idea of "normal" feeding intervals, not for the baby's well-being.
- Pacifiers are linked to an increase in ear infections and thrush among babies in daycare. Interestingly, the action of using a pacifier seems to be at least part of the problem, not just the cleanliness of the pacifier itself.
- The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that pacifiers be avoided and, if used, that they bey introduced only after breastfeeding is well-established.
- UNICEF and the World Health Organization will not certify as Baby-Friendly any birth facility that routinely gives out pacifiers. There are over 15,000 certified Baby-Friendly facilities world-wide. There are fewer than 40 in the United States and Canada.
- "Letting a baby use you as a pacifier" is a normal nursing pattern. There is no evidence to support limiting a baby's time at the breast; there is considerable evidence that babies should not be limited. However, if a baby seems to nurse all the time, with a frantic need to suck, a breastfeeding specialist should look at the effectiveness of the nursing. Babies who want to suck usually want food.
- Pacifiers were linked in one study to a lower IQ. There is only one study that has made this connection, but the implication is that routinely "buying a baby off" with a pacifier, instead of meeting his need for stimulation and interaction, may slow down his mental development.
- Pacifiers affect mothers' responses to crying. A mother tends to learn fewer calming techniques if she routinely uses a pacifier.
- Pacifiers have not been linked to latex allergies. However, in a world in which latex allergies are increasing it may make sense to look for a silicone (clear) pacifier if one is used.
- Pacifier use during tube-feedings is linked to improved weight gain in premies, although sucking on a softened breast is preferable. Sucking during feeding releases digestive hormones, allowing a premature infant to absorb more from his food and gain weight more easily.
- Pacifier design does not appear to matter. Although various companies market "orthodontic" or "exercise" pacifiers, there is no research to support one design over another. A clean finger is probably best, because it's attached to a real person. And a larger finger or adult thumb may make more sense, because babies are normally wide-mouthed at a breast.
- Longterm pacifier use was linked in a few studies to problems in oral development. In these studies, children's jaws didn't develop as broad an arch as they would have with a normal year or more of no-gadget breastfeeding, resulting in an increased need for orthodontia and increased difficulty in nose breathing.
- Babies with pacifiers don't smile. There's no formal research, but you can check this one for yourself at any shopping mall. Watch how babies with and without pacifiers relate to their surroundings. Watch how adults relate to the babies. When do babies smile? When do adults smile at them and interact with them?
- What happens when the normal three-way interaction of sucking and calories and loving touch is disrupted with a pacifier? We still know only some of the answers.
Are pacifiers always a bad thing? No.
Are they sometimes a bad thing? Yes.
Should they be as common as they are?
If you decide to use a pacifier, understand that it replaces food for body and mind, and use it carefully.
No change (Score:2)
On pacifier (Score:2)
I really don't get the point of them. We'll probably have one on hand for when it's just not possible to feed right then and there. But apart from that, I can't imagine why we'd need one.
Re:On pacifier (Score:2)
Wow. Wish someone'd told me that when I flew with Kiddo all the way to Cali and back. The demented (literally -- mentally ill) woman in the back bothered people a HELL of a lot more than my baby did!! (She fussed a little during our 15-minute descent, and didn't want to suck then anyway -- trust me -- I was waving my boob in front of her face the whole way down...)
Re:On pacifier (Score:1)
Re:On pacifier (Score:2)
Subject (Score:2)
Although I'm a bloke and quite blatantly not about to have kids for quite some time, a lot of the stuff on that site seems interesting. That page about "cheesecake and soup", for example. I'll try to remember some of that for the (probably very distant) future.
huhnh. (Score:2)
Yeah, go suck on that. And I've prolly the most creative, artistic, smartest mother-fucker up in this joint.
Mekka B reprezent-zent!
( in terms of me smiling; they were too worried about my menengitis to care about pacifiers. And that's NO BULLSHIT. And yeah, I did smile.)
Re:huhnh. (Score:2)
Oh, and it's not your fault -- or even your mom's. I wasn't breastfed, either. It's just that now we just know *so* much better than they used to how wonderful it is for our babies.
Re:huhnh. (Score:2)
Bad stuff. They told Mom I'd probably die and if I did live I'd be deaf, blind, and brain damaged. I obviously didn't die, I have better than 20/20 vision, I can hear great, and... ok, 3 outta 4 isn't bad. ;-)
Re:huhnh. (Score:2)
Notwithstanding, breastfeeding helps protect against a MULTITUDE of childhood (and adult!) illnesses, and can *definitely* help infected children fight the diseases they do catch. Even if it's just by providing comfort and security through stressful doctors' visits and/or hospital stays -- it is incredibly valuable.
Oh, and dude.
Danger, Will Robinson (Score:2)
Kumbaya.
Well it's like this (Score:2)
Sohie (4 mos) has no use for the Nuk and id about 2 days away from being weened from my wife's Double Fs. A sad day for us all.
That said. Do What Thou Wilt Shall Be The Whole Of The Law In Regards To Pacifying.
Re:Well it's like this (Score:2)
For me, knowing how valuable breastfeeding is for my child and me, and understanding this information about how using a pacifier can jeopardize our breastfeeding relationship, I will choose NOT to take the risk -- it's as simple as tha
Re:Well it's like this (Score:2)
Raising a child to self sufficiency is easy. Look at the brain dead lump
now i know why i still have you friended (Score:1)
Out of 4 kids, none of ours even gave a second look at a pacifier. and only one sucks her thumb.
Re:now i know why i still have you friended (Score:2)
Whenever I post about parenting & breastfeeding issues, I cringe every time I get a message that someone's replied -- it's a touchy subject, and people get *really* defensive, even though my intention is not to criticize.
And as for the boobies -- they're wonderful things, aren't they? In *so* many contexts. I'm definitely getting my "money's worth" out of mine! (N.B. I have not really invested any money in my breasts -- I'm just using the expression.)
Re:now i know why i still have you friended (Score:2)
Re:now i know why i still have you friended (Score:2)
Pacifiers are tools of the devil. (Score:2)
They're like crack for babies, and parents who just pop it in to fill the cry hole are deserving of death.
That having been said, of my three, one (the first one, we didn't know better) had to be broken of the habit, trainspotting style. The second found her thumb, and we still have problems with that. The third used the nuk nuk responsibly, put it away, and never looked back.
Never used one (Score:2)
Ornery Joe answers back (Score:1)
The routine use of pacifiers is linked to early weaning. The link is very clear. But it isn't known whether mothers who are having trouble are more likely to turn to pacifiers, or whether the pacifiers themselves are the problem.
This reads as "We have a correlation, the very foundation of pseudoscience, but w
Re:Ornery Joe answers back (Score:2)
By no means is offense taken. You have some very valid points about the non-specificity about the references to "research" in this article. But I do feel compelled to mention a few things in its & the author's defense.
First of all, this isn't a medical research article. Its target is regular, Average Janes who *really* don't want to look at footnotes or care about the source of the data. Yes, correlation does not equal causation -- but we understand SO little about causation when it comes to