we know that simply observing an experiment can change the outcome. We don't know why that is either, AFAIK
We most certainly *do* know why observation affects an experiment. It's the Heisenberg uncertainty principle in action - if you make a measurement of the state of a system, that variable is known to some degree of precision. Its conjugate variable is thus made uncertain to a degree prescribed by the uncertainty principle. This has nothing to do with consciousness or a living observer.
A simple double-slit experiment works because of the uncertainty in the position of the particle. The wavefunction interferes with itself as it comes out of both slits and affects the possible positions it can be observed at on the detector. If you measure whether the particle passes through one of the slits, it's position is no longer uncertain, the wavefunction changes, and the experiment reflects that. This is well-understood quantum mechanics, although the popular press likes to pretend we don't know anything about it. And yes, IAAP (I am a physicist).
I can second the recommendation for Hartle (the title is Gravity: an Introduction to Einstein's General Relativity). It's a great introduction that I used as an undergrad, but be warned - it's still pretty complicated, even as an introduction. The nice part about it is that it develops the concepts of curved spacetime as you need them to investigate interesting physical systems, like the geometrized version of Special Relativity (which gets you time dilation and the Twin Paradox) or Schwarzschild black holes. My favorite section is where it discusses the metric of the entire universe, which describe the expansion of space and what happens to spacetime in the distant future.
As to Misner, Thorne, and Wheeler - avoid it until you've gone through some more introductory texts. It's really easy to get in over your head and get discouraged in that text, as they dive in head-first with hard-core math.
1 = 0! Holy shit!
The irony here is that 0!=1 is a true statement. And yes, I do think factorials are exciting.
I don't think "draconian copy protection" was the reason either SACD or DVD-A didn't catch on. I think the reason they didn't catch on is that they're more expensive than CDs, they can't be played in a regular CD player (or, in the case of SACD, can only be played as an ordinary CD in such a drive), and the improvement in audio is undetectable to most people. I am certainly happy with CD-quality and have no burning desire to switch. Why would you pay more when you don't see any discernible benefit?
Similarly, most people are quite happy with the quality and resolution of DVD. To get the benefit of BD you also need a large HDTV, which not everyone has yet. Of course, considering how often people watch 4:3 content stretched to fill their 16:9 screen, it wouldn't surprise me if most wouldn't notice the resolution improvement even if they have HDTV.
I mostly watch video on my laptop, and only occasionally watch HD content online. I do notice the improvement over regular DVD, but it's still not something I think about if I'm watching something that I enjoy in standard definition. I certainly don't see why I should pay significantly inflated prices for BD discs when I just don't care about the improvement very much.
Biology grows on you.