Journal Mer_panacea's Journal: Interpretation of a dream 4
I am on very good terms with my wife.
Last night I had a dream of sleeping with her best friend. She is very pretty. We have been in good friendly relationship through my wife.
I have been very loyal to my wife. Is it my hidden desire to have intimate relation with her. I felt shocked!
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Regarding such dreams. Quite simply, we're programmed that way, since our genes are more 'concerned' about reproduction than almost anything else. However, if you wish to stay loyal (as a threesome isn't an option), you how to ensure that such thoughts don't develop.
Maybe this is why many men fantasise about film stars: it will always remain a fantasy, so that it is no threat to their marriage. I'm sure that the same is true for women.
From what you have written in other journals, I believe that you have
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Her family and ours happen to live closely.
My wife and I sometimes pay a visit to her best friend and her husband and also we often came across in a supermarket. Her best friend and I often talk together a while when we happened to meet. In this case we- her best friend and I never develop love feeling. It is morally questionable for us to sleep with a female friend of our wife and I've never even imagined to do so. But my dream tells me my completely hidden desire.
The reason I remain to be loyal to my wife
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I tell you a little bit deeper story behind the dream.
For a short term -a couple of months, I was teaching English and other subjects as a private tutor to then high school student when I was at college. She was 16 and she was the youngest of the three sisters.
She was very pretty. It was always very hard for me to keep sane and suppress my desire when we only two are in her study, but anyway I taught earnestly. I heard she has two elder sisters. Eldest sister once took me to my lodgings by car. Though my st
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How do you think honestly whether it's morally wrong to have an extra-marital relationship?
Yes I do. Even for libertarians, I think that it is wrong, since there is a promise within marriage to remain faithful. If you wish to have the option, your partner should know, and you should not get married.
There is an exception, and that is when both of you wish to pursue extra-marital relationships in a threesome or similar. In such a case, you have both agreed to ignore the contract that you have for the sake of pursuing a mutual desire. It must truely be mutual, however; it is not enough to be ab