So called "green" tech like solar panels actually do produce vast quantities of incredibly toxic waste at every stage of their lifecycle that we have no viable way to deal with, unlike nuclear.
Incorrect. This is misinformation fed to you by think-tanks funded by the fossil fuel industry (and sometimes by paid nuclear-power lobbyists). The vast majority of solar arrays are single-crystal silicon, and the raw materials are sand, aluminum, and glass. None of these produce vast quantities of "incredibly toxic" waste to make or to recycle.
If you look at any of these claims that making solar arrays produces toxic waste, and drill down into what the solar array industry actually does, you'll find that all these reports on "OMG! Toxic waste!" are for processes that aren't actually used.