Point and shame. That's how you destroy careers and the standards of excellence that makes a nation. No evidence required, don't bother reading the deposition, the personal is the political, ad hominem attacks from beginning to end for defending someone (Minsky) that wasn't accused of anything.
Why would you need to defend someone who wasn't accused of anything? I'm not disputing your (I think largely correct) assessment of what happened but publicly defending someone in a context like this carries risks that you have to be incredibly naive to be unaware of. Stallman is a prominent public figure with experience in media relations who waded into a serious debate where he really had nothing to contribute and that carried significant PR baggage. Frankly he should have known better unless he really felt passionately that he was doing something worth falling on his sword for.
With metoo backfiring so that men don't trust being alone in an office with a woman, feminism is looking a lot like a hate movement with the way they throw accusations of sex crime around in order to get their hit of indignation to maintain their moral superiority.
You seem to be under the delusion that sex crimes and legitimate harassment are things that don't actually happen to women. Just because it makes you uncomfortable and doesn't happen to you doesn't mean it isn't real. You really need to get out and talk to some actual women because it's pretty clear you have no concept of the scope of the problem or what they have to put up with from far too many men. Most men are well intentioned decent people but make no mistake that there are a LOT of assholes out there too ruining it for the rest of us.
And your characterization of feminism as a hate movement shows you have NO idea what the term actually means. That's like saying all muslims are evil because a few assholes flew planes into some tall buildings. WAY too broad a brush there my friend.
That's why this shaming of men must end.
We can do that when shaming of women ends as well. Or are you so naive as to think that doesn't happen to an equal or greater extent? And let's be frank - a LOT of the behavior of men SHOULD be shamed because it's reprehensible. I don't disagree that sometimes it goes to far (probably here in fact) but by all means explain the reason why we shouldn't shame both the people who commit crimes (Epstein, Weinstein, Cosby, etc) as well as those who protected and enabled them. When it rises to that sort of level you defend them at your own risk publicly and you have to be an idiot to think that people won't judge you for it regardless of the facts.