Try the DIY approach; Stop what you are doing walk quietly to the sleeping childs room and take a peek! As a father of 3 there is nothing that will mill make you beleive in all that is right with the world like the sight of your children sleeping angelicly. And nothing makes you feel better than seeing it with your own eyes. Also read "The Veldt" by Ray Bradbury http://www.veddma.com/veddma/Veldt.htm before you get to techy with your childcare. he he he.