Greetings from England. Those I know who drink socially are healthier, live longer and are generally, more fun and less aggressive than those that don't. My father didn't drink, and never relaxed, so was grumpy a lot and died at 78 of a heart attack. The females in my family who drink live/lived long lives, one 98. Yes, abuse, as per drugs, potato fries/chips, chocolate or ice cream, is not going to end well, but having a laugh with mates or lady friends over a drinkipoo is a vital tonic. Not as easy when sober, the latter required for work and driving of course. One tip to prevent over drinking or spending when socialising, take cash, and only enough to buy yourself your limit and one for a buddy. (For me, this is £10/$12.) Harder today with electronic payment where you can spend as much as you have in the bank or on credit! I know many accomplished people who get pretty sloshed, but it's a great way to unwind a lot of mental stress. Again, socially! Mates keep you safe. Drinking alone is a problem unless an evening tipple, although that means you'll wake up 3am needing a wee. ;) (I use sleeping pills for that.)