Lines are drawn everyday! The very nature of making that cake was/is offensive to many or a simple "Love John and Steve" message is the line for them, for you its just a bit further. Everyone has these lines drawn for everything somewhere...actualize where you are drawing them, where others are and hopefully everyone can understand each-other better.

You forgot one

Free For All (=Anarchy)
You let everyone to get at the resources in their own way. Many form little bubbles of Socialism, Communism, Capitalism, National Socialism and Monarchies. Some of these bubbles bump up against each other and try to live side by side without popping. Some pop, some pop and are reborn under a new rule, some manage to have their own island and get really big because they are so far away from the other bubbles. In the end, the Bubble with the biggest "stick" pops the rest into submission.