Because the successful arenâ(TM)t allowed to have a culture. That is it. I said it. Pointed out that elephant.
In any group of mixed people you can identify the successful by seeing who isnt allowed to retain their own culture.
I watched kids in my high school âoeget tiredâ of other cultures and âoego be with their kindâ. When they did this other races were not allowed to follow them. They got to go do all their segregated stuff free of any other cultures behind closed doors and then return to the mixed group âoewhen comfortableâ. The most successful group cannot do this. They are followed no matter where and are not allowed to form any kind of private like minded culture. Whatsoever.
The most successful simply *cannot* do this. Everyone gets to free for all on their culture and their desire to gather like minded people will be viewed as greedy and exclusionary. But this is totally fine for the non successful groups to do. They can have their own events with race checked at the door.
This is how you identify it. Can you grow tired of the other cultures and gather your culture in private? If yes you are not the most successful group in the location you are in.